You Don’t Need Another Sermon On Porn

James 1:22 “Be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.”

I spent years addicted to porn. I would watch videos on how to get free. I read every man’s battle. I heard a million sermons. Most of them were 45 minutes of “why porn is wrong”.

I’m not going to tell you why its wrong. You know why its wrong. What you need isn’t more information on the damaging effects of porn. You don’t need another sermon. You need obedience.

I spent years looking for the secret trick or the new revelation. I was looking for a moment that my chains would be broken and I would really be free. All I ever got were sermons on “why porn is bad”.

Freedom from porn doesn’t come through a program it comes through a person. How did I experience freedom from this addiction?

I adopted a lifestyle of humility. Self consciousness kept me from ever knowing freedom. I realized I would rather lose my reputation than continue to be enslaved. I sought help from my pastoral team and had sought help from other professions. Your greatest enemies are pride and fear. Humble yourself.

I had to find out why I was turning to porn. I had been medicating myself with pleasure. Escapism and pleasure gave me relief from how hard life is. Most addictions begin as a medication of sorts.

Most of all I had to give up my rights. I gave up my rights to my body. Your body is not your own. You have no rights to abuse the goodness God has given you. I began submitting my mind and body to God, because they are His.

Maybe you’re struggling with this addiction. If you are, take steps. Turn off the sermons and the books and follow God in obedience. Seek help and wisdom from wise counsel.

Can Jesus Be Tempted?

Could Jesus sin? If Jesus was really God could He be tempted to do something evil? Did Jesus have this human experience of temptation?

This is a good question, but it is an easy one to answer! Hebrews 4:15 “ we have a High Priest who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.” Could Jesus be tempted? Not only could he have been tempted, He was tempted! Here’s the kicker, he experienced all temptation and never sinned!

Have you ever been tempted with something you hate? Maybe you’re in a committed relationship and you’re tempted to cheat on your spouse. Maybe you are tempted to cheat at work to get ahead? Lying to get yourself out of trouble, stealing pens or paper from work. Maybe you’ve been tempted to take your own life to escape pain.

Jesus felt all of these temptations. It is comforting to me that Jesus was tempted. He has sympathy for me. He has sympathy for you. Jesus cares for you. You have a high priest who understands your temptation and has overcome them all!

In Hebrews it says Jesus now stands before God defending us, because he knows how hard it is. God has mercy for those who repent of their sin and follow Him.

48 Minutes That Will Change Your Life

I was thinking about tithes. Tithing pre-dates the nation of Israel, Abraham gave a Tithe to Melchezidek (Genesis 14:18-24). It was practiced before the law of Moses and it has been practiced after Jesus fulfilled the law. Tithing serves two purposes; firstly it allows God’s people to be a part of God’s work. Secondly it teaches the heart total submission to God.

But God wants more than just your money He wants your life!

This brings me to the 48 minutes that will change your life. Start with this question: “What if I gave a tithe of my time?” One tenth of your time to God.

This got me thinking. There are 24 hours in a day that’s 2 hours and 24 minutes. Even for the super spiritual 2 and a half hours is a daunting amount of time. Like Daniel you could split this up to three times a day, Morning, Noon and Night. We could divide it into three 48 minute times of devotion.

Still, that may seem unachievable to most of us. What if we only tithed the hours we’re awak? Let’s say that’s sixteen hours, that gives us 96 minutes. Or two 48 minute quite times morning and evening (like the psalmnist and Isaiah).

If that’s still too much for you to undertake right away, why don’t you tithe on your time outside of work. If you have 8 hours outside of work your tithe would be 48 minutes.

Do you want to revolutionize your prayer life? Set apart 48 minutes of your day as a tithe to God. 48 minutes of meditation, thanksgiving and prayer. That’s 16 minutes morning, noon and night, or 24 minutes morning and evening.

Every Christian ought to strive to spend more time with God. I think there is power in 48 minutes. What do you think?

Masculinity Is Maturity

Masculinity is currently imploding. Every time we turn on the T.V. or pop over to yahoo news there’s a new story about a selfish man doing selfish things. Evil and wicked men are a dime a dozen. It’s a P.R. nightmare for men. It is also so hard to see any good example of masculinity for boys. This is not a new development. For ages and ages heroes are very flawed men.

Part of the problem is how we define masculinity as a culture. As I see it there are two ways to view masculinity. It is a set of traits that are violent, strong and abrasive a barbarian and brute. Or it is nothing at all and just a construct of society. Neither of these are entirely true. Yes, men tend to be more violent and abrasive than women. Yes, society has a say in how men are perceived and even act. However, not all men are Conan the Barbarian and some men have an identity apart from how culture defines them.

Our culture defines masculinity as an opposition or difference from femininity. Women are more alike than they are different. What defines masculinity is not how men differ from women, rather, it is by how they differ from boy. The Bible distinguishes men from boys. “When I was a child I spoke as a Child, now I am a man and have put away childish things” 1 Corinthians 13:11. What our culture is in desperate need of is an expectation for men to grow up. Most great sin is born out of immaturity and selfishness.

Our culture expects men to act childish. It is a defining feature in entertainment and advertising. The dad goofs off while mom does the work. Young men staying at home with their parents playing videogames or basketball. It may seem like a stretch to equate immaturity with the terrible sins of our society. Let me be very clear; boys who never mature are selfish, lazy, and gluttonous. For too long, proponents of Biblical masculinity, have squared up men verses women; masculinity is a maturity issue. Men must wage war on their own immaturity in order to walk in a unique expression of masculinity

Who Did Jesus Hang Out With?

“If you put a bad apple in a barrel of good apples the rest will soon rot.” I remember reading this when I was a teenager. It was some literature talking about peer pressure or something akin to that. It makes sense I suppose, keep your bad things away from your good things. Keep your dead things away from things that are alive. This was the parenting standard for most of the 90’s and for much of the early 2000’s. Bad kids corrupt good kids. In some way it created an unhealthy protection. Like too much hand sanitizer, kills all the germs and your immune system suffers because it doesn’t develope resistance.
It’s a good thing that Jesus didn’t share this sentiment. He was a good apple in a barrel full of rotten apples. He was something very alive in a dead world. When Jesus arrived on earth it became impossible for Him to avoid relationship with flawed humanity. However, I think this question of ‘who did Jesus hang out with?’ is one of those questions that people use to justify their behaviors. Like a teenager hanging out with a rough crowd in school tells his mom “Jesus was a friend of sinners, so am I.” Or like the progressive Christian 20 something “Jesus was sitting with sinners drinking wine and having a good time.”
There are two stark differences between Jesus sitting with sinners and publicans; and a college student going to a kegger. The difference is the leadership of the Spirit and presence of righteousness. Jesus went to these places because He was led by the Spirit. There was an intentionality to Jesus going to these parties the publicans threw. He didn’t go to “have a good time.” He went to change their lives. He didn’t go to dance, get drunk and play games. He went to heal the sick. He saw the people partying as sick people in need of a healer. If you are making the argument that Jesus was there to have a good time you’ll be hard pressed to find scripture proving that. What you will find in scripture is Jesus teaching and changing lives around Him.
Jesus did hang out with sinners, so that they might experience freedom from sin. Jesus did hang out with those who were dead inside in order to give them life.

Humble Christian

The most pervasive and sinful thought in the western church is; ‘God’s glory is attached to my individual well being’. That is to say; God get’s more glory if I am doing well. The more power and authority I have, the greater God’s glory. The more stuff I own, the bigger His kingdom. Our attitude towards the world, in this present age, is ‘I need to have all the trappings and subtance of the world in order for God to get glory from my life’.

The greatest contribution you can make in this life is to declare war on whatever feeds your ego. Let me be clear; the stuff of earth is not evil. God could bless you with all the wealth of the world and you could know Him as your dearest friend. However, the thought “if I have this desire it was given to me by God.” This is a weedy thought that can trap and enslave you.

God cares very much for you, and He does want to give you good things. However, If you find yourself pursuing good things verses pursuing our good God you will find destruction. Set your eyes and your affections on the Kingdom of God.

Humility was a reality in Jesus’ life. Jesus was not pre-occupied by Himself. What does that mean? He sought to obey God over His own flesh. The Bible says Jesus was tempted in the wilderness, yet He had His affections set on the will of God. Satan offered Him authority and Jesus embraced rejection. Satan offered Him Kingdoms but Jesus chose homelessness. Satan offered Jesus life, but Jesus chose to be obedient to God even to His death on the cross.

What am I saying? Reject the hustle. Reject self empowerment. Lay and axe to the root of any love that robs you of God given destiny. Materialism and Hedonism are tearing apart the western church. Be brave enough to live in humility. Do things because God has called you to them not because they are fiscally lucrative. Sacrifice yourself. Give up prestige and power. Be obedient to God.

Walk humbly.

Why Did Jesus Perform Miracles?

I was talking with a young man, an unbeliever on his way to becoming an engineer. “If God exists then why doesn’t he do miracles?” This question about miracles is a very important question. Before I answer it we must establish this point: Miracles are primarily demonstrated towards God’s people in order for their faith to be increased.

Many people even in the Christian faith believe miracles are to demonstrate the power of God towards the lost world. This is not the case. God demonstrates His power towards His children. When the doubting world seeks a sign to know whether God is real they are faced with this statement from Jesus “A wicked and adulterous generation looks for a sign, but none will be given it except the sign of Jonah.” Matthew 16:4

For the lost world God has demonstrated His power through the resurrection of Jesus. This is the sign by which people can know He’s real. If there were any other sign by which lost people could know God is real it would become an idol! A good example of this is nature. All of creation declares the glory of God and yet men glorify the created thing more than the Creator.

Jesus worked many miracles. Primarily all of His miracles were for those who already believed in Jesus and were seeking His compassion and kindness. They were not (Primarily) for those asking Jesus to prove to them that He was the Messiah. There are a couple of instances where seemingly Jesus is proving His anointing, but even these are demonstrated on behalf of believers.

Jesus worked miracles to identify Himself to those who already believed and for the physical well being of those who followed Him. If you’re seeking a sign to know whether Jesus is the Son of God, or whether God is real look at the death and resurrection of Jesus.

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Why Did Jesus Get Baptized?

In the past when cloth was dyed by hand there were cities that specialized in cloth making. Around the city there would be large vats filled with dyes. Clean cloth was submerged in these vats until their color had been changed. This process is still practiced around the world. The process of dipping the cloth into dye, in the ancient Greek world, would be commonly referred to as Baptizo. This is was a common term when Jesus walked the earth.

Jewish people had started to make it a habit to do ritual washings before meals and ceremonies. Although there are some Levitical laws for sick people and priests washing, these laws of ritual washing were mostly traditional. God had not commanded the Israelite nation to make a ritual of washing. However, a man named John (a cousin of Jesus) came to Israel and started to preach repentance. He called people to forsake the things of this world and seek God’s kingdom.

When people began to seek the kingdom of God and produced fruit of God changing them, John would take them to the river and baptize them. All those who were baptized, just like clean cloth dipped in a vat of dye, changed the way people saw them. By being dipped in the water of the Jordan river they were making a claim of affiliation with this “Kingdom of God”.

Then one day Jesus came to where John was baptizing. John saw his own need to be identified with Jesus, but Jesus told John that it would be beautiful in the sight of God for John to baptize Him instead. As John dipped Jesus into the Jordan river, Jesus was affiliating Himself with the Kingdom of God. Jesus came out of the water and the Spirit of God descended on Jesus in the bodily form of a dove. The voice of God declared “You are my beloved son; with you I am well pleased.” With the Baptism waters rushing over Him, the Spirit of God landing upon Him and the voice of God speaking over Him, Jesus had been identified as the son of God before John and all those around.

Baptism is about being identified publicly with the Kingdom of God. It is a declaration of sorts that God has complete control over your life. That’s exactly why Jesus was baptized. There’s also a part of baptism that is a declaration to ourselves, there is the voice of God spoken over all those who believe and are baptized, that “you are my beloved son or daughter, and I am pleased in you.”

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What Did Jesus Say On The Cross?

While on the cross Jesus said seven different things. These have come to be known as the seven last words on the cross. They have become an important part of meditation for many believer’s. They serve to remind us of the mortality, humanity and the divinity of Jesus.

  1. “Father forgive them for they know not what they do.”
  2. One of the criminals who were hanged railed at him, saying, “Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us!” But the other rebuked him, saying, “Do you not fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation? And we indeed justly, for we are receiving the due reward of our deeds; but this man has done nothing wrong.” And he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” And he said to him, “Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in paradise.” 
  3. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.
  4. “Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?” that is, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”
  5. “I am thirsty.”
  6. When he had received the drink, Jesus said, “It is finished.”
  7. Jesus called out with a loud voice, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit.”

Each of these sayings are important and profound. From Jesus’ heart of forgiveness, His care and love for His mother, His mercy on the humble and then the most human expression of rejection. I would love to cover each of these individually, but I think they ought to be meditated upon for yourself. When I think upon these sayings, I see a very human Jesus experiencing very human pain. When I am at my lowest point there is an overwhelming feeling that God has forsaken me – Jesus has truly experienced the lowest of human pain. Yet, in this darkest hour He pleads for us, giving us forgiveness and life. Approaching God on our behalf to negotiate mercy. These are the sayings of Jesus on the cross, and they are vastly important.

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What Did Jesus Teach?

Jesus taught so many wonderful things. Many Theologians and experts agree that Jesus’ first teaching for His disciples was the Sermon of the Mount. This is the longest of Jesus’ teachings recorded. If you read it at a normal speed it is shorter than 15 minutes. He starts this Sermon with the Beatitudes. These are attitudes that people who follow Jesus will possess, and they set the tone for this sermon. Each of the attitudes illustrate a deep need for God and a mindset of humility and selflessness. The rest of this sermon serves to illustrate our deep need for grace. If you tried to live out the principals of the sermon in a perfect way, you would come up short.

Essentially Jesus lays out the core truths of the law and puts them into philosophies and mindsets. For instance, the law says to not commit adultery, but Jesus lays out an expectation of living and thinking in purity. The Law says do not murder but Jesus calls us to not think hatefully towards others. The Law gave us an understanding that God is good, and we ought to be good like Him, likewise this sermon shows us that Jesus is good and we ought to be good like Him. It also serves to teach us how impossible it is for us to be that good.

This fundamental teaching of Jesus sets the standard of righteousness so high we are unable to reach it. By setting the value so high it removes our barrier of self-righteousness, because we realize that our only hope in life is for God to have compassion on us. We become completely reliant on the kindness and goodness of God. Jesus’ fundamental teaching in this sermon is that God is good. This truth, that God is good, is why Jesus came. Jesus stated that He came to testify to the truth (John 18:37). He also said that He is the truth (John 14:6). The truth is that God loves you (1 John 4:9). Jesus is the image of that love. God did not have to send Jesus, but He did. Jesus was not obligated to die on the cross, but he did.

Jesus’ teachings give us a perfect picture of obedience and communion with God. He calls all of mankind to turn away from imperfect living and orient our direction towards holiness, all the while knowing that true holiness can only be achieved by direct intervention of God’s love. If you are not familiar with the teachings of Jesus, read for yourself these wonderful words. His teaching is life and truth.

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