James 1:22 “Be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.”
I spent years addicted to porn. I would watch videos on how to get free. I read every man’s battle. I heard a million sermons. Most of them were 45 minutes of “why porn is wrong”.
I’m not going to tell you why its wrong. You know why its wrong. What you need isn’t more information on the damaging effects of porn. You don’t need another sermon. You need obedience.
I spent years looking for the secret trick or the new revelation. I was looking for a moment that my chains would be broken and I would really be free. All I ever got were sermons on “why porn is bad”.
Freedom from porn doesn’t come through a program it comes through a person. How did I experience freedom from this addiction?
I adopted a lifestyle of humility. Self consciousness kept me from ever knowing freedom. I realized I would rather lose my reputation than continue to be enslaved. I sought help from my pastoral team and had sought help from other professions. Your greatest enemies are pride and fear. Humble yourself.
I had to find out why I was turning to porn. I had been medicating myself with pleasure. Escapism and pleasure gave me relief from how hard life is. Most addictions begin as a medication of sorts.
Most of all I had to give up my rights. I gave up my rights to my body. Your body is not your own. You have no rights to abuse the goodness God has given you. I began submitting my mind and body to God, because they are His.
Maybe you’re struggling with this addiction. If you are, take steps. Turn off the sermons and the books and follow God in obedience. Seek help and wisdom from wise counsel.
