This generation is confused.
Some people are caught up on the macho where coarse jokes and physical strength rule the day. Don’t even think about emotions or God forbid crying! Then others believe in the soft boi. We need to be wearing pastel colors and watch our tone. After all, we are meant to make others around us feel emotionally safe, aren’t we? Has anyone bothered to look to scripture for their answer? In it we see examples like Moses who stood up to the most powerful man on earth. We see Paul who didn’t let anyone stand in the way of his mission. God designed men to be tough, powerful, and wild at heart. Sometimes, we just need a little encouragement, and permission to be, you know, men!
Get the heck off your video games!
Get off your phone! For the love of all that is good and holy rise up and realize God built your shoulders for duty. God said “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her”- Ephesians 5:25 You were designed to lead, friend. That doesn’t mean you deserve that leadership role; it means you were designed to carry an unfair load. When others complain, you serve, you stay the course. Jesus, the ultimate man, displayed just that. He was disciplined in his prayer life, he stood up to the bullies, and he loved ferociously all the way to the grave, and beyond, for us!
Men, you need adventure.
All of this sounds fantastic, but if you are anything like me there are so many moments when you feel overwhelmed, and anything but powerful. One thing I have learned: “God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.”– 1 Corinthians 1:27. Men, you need adventure. You don’t want it, you need it, but often the waves get too high. When that happens, don’t run and hide. Don’t blame shift. Turn to your Father in heaven who loves you. All power comes from him anyways. The older I get, the more I realize how much more God wants my intensity. He wants me to love my wife, even when she has daily break downs. He wanted me to keep serving an uncle when they shot their AR-15 at me….that day.
Finally, I realized I couldn’t do any of this alone. There is no scripture out there written to one person alone. You’re not a freaking island! Sorry, I hate that saying. You have friends, brothers in Christ, who want to hear what is going on in your life. They will bandage your wounds. If they care, they will cry with you, and they will fight with you. If you don’t have that you are just like me! We just moved in the middle of this pandemic. You and I, as men, as leaders, as servants, we are still called to make disciples. Gather men around you who love Jesus. Forge new relationships and dive into the depths of vulnerability with them. Often times, no one is going to give you that spiritual community. You be the catalyst. You will be surprised by the fruit and joy God brings out of your toil!
Stay Wild, Men- Justin Poenisch

