Dangerous Men for Dangerous Times

This generation is confused.

Some people are caught up on the macho where coarse jokes and physical strength rule the day. Don’t even think about emotions or God forbid crying! Then others believe in the soft boi. We need to be wearing pastel colors and watch our tone. After all, we are meant to make others around us feel emotionally safe, aren’t we? Has anyone bothered to look to scripture for their answer? In it we see examples like Moses who stood up to the most powerful man on earth. We see Paul who didn’t let anyone stand in the way of his mission. God designed men to be tough, powerful, and wild at heart. Sometimes, we just need a little encouragement, and permission to be, you know, men!

Get the heck off your video games!

Get off your phone! For the love of all that is good and holy rise up and realize God built your shoulders for duty. God said “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her”- Ephesians 5:25 You were designed to lead, friend. That doesn’t mean you deserve that leadership role; it means you were designed to carry an unfair load. When others complain, you serve, you stay the course. Jesus, the ultimate man, displayed just that. He was disciplined in his prayer life, he stood up to the bullies, and he loved ferociously all the way to the grave, and beyond, for us!

Men, you need adventure.

All of this sounds fantastic, but if you are anything like me there are so many moments when you feel overwhelmed, and anything but powerful. One thing I have learned: “God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.”– 1 Corinthians 1:27. Men, you need adventure. You don’t want it, you need it, but often the waves get too high. When that happens, don’t run and hide. Don’t blame shift. Turn to your Father in heaven who loves you. All power comes from him anyways. The older I get, the more I realize how much more God wants my intensity. He wants me to love my wife, even when she has daily break downs. He wanted me to keep serving an uncle when they shot their AR-15 at me….that day.

Finally, I realized I couldn’t do any of this alone. There is no scripture out there written to one person alone. You’re not a freaking island! Sorry, I hate that saying. You have friends, brothers in Christ, who want to hear what is going on in your life. They will bandage your wounds. If they care, they will cry with you, and they will fight with you. If you don’t have that you are just like me! We just moved in the middle of this pandemic. You and I, as men, as leaders, as servants, we are still called to make disciples. Gather men around you who love Jesus. Forge new relationships and dive into the depths of vulnerability with them. Often times, no one is going to give you that spiritual community. You be the catalyst. You will be surprised by the fruit and joy God brings out of your toil!

Stay Wild, Men- Justin Poenisch

Justin is a mighty man of God and I’m thankful to have him speaking truth into my life and the lives of other men.

Surrounded

First World Problems?

I got a bit overwhelmed today. I had 1 million discussions on Facebook pounding in my head, phone calls, texts, e-mails, deadlines and all sort of things pressing to become priority. With so much weight and information vying for my attention its hard not to feel overwhelmed. I feel a bit encumbered. As if the whole world is closing in around me.

Its easy for us as Christians in the west to dismiss the trapping and troubles of modernity as nothing more than “first world problems.” But in dismissing them we take away or tools for fighting them and fight them we must. Just because we are not waging a physical war for our souls (as is the case of martyrs and missionaries around the world) we are waging a war. Our war happens in the head.

The Devil You Know

The evils of this world have never been more available to humans. We are painfully pulled in all directions and our ragged souls are proof. King David lamented that his enemies encompassed him, for him it was literal. For us our enemy has encompassed us in a sneaky sort of way but just as crippling. While enemies of old oppressed the bodies, the new age enemy strives to enslave our attention.

It is a terrible thing to live your life so weighed down with the things of this life. To feel overwhelmed and overcome. I think my instinct is to get rid of the things bothering me. “I’ll get off Facebook,” “I won’t watch so much t.v.” These things can be as much an oppressor as any demon (that is not to say they are demons). Remember the story Jesus told about a man who had a devil in his house. He cast the devil from his house and left it empty and seven more filled its space. If you do unencumber yourself from worldly things; do not forget to fill in the spaces with good things.

You will always be surrounded. BUT you have a choice in what surrounds you. Start replacing the things surrounding you that overwhelm you with things that encourage you, breathe life into you and build you up. Understand that you’re in real danger of losing the war for your soul if you do not surround yourself with the host of heaven.

Hype Church

I’ve been to my fair share of revivals. A long time ago church leaders noticed a certain dullness to the spiritual lives of their congregation. This dullness led church leaders to program; because programming is human replacement for the Spirit. Normally, revivals are a multi-night affair; an attempt to stir up the Spirit of God through songs and sermons. If I sound a bit critical it is because I am. Churches can no more schedule a move of God as an ant can schedule the weather. Do we really think our singing, dancing and sermonizing will MAKE God move?

In the modern church I’ve been asked to “hype” people up before services. Let me make this clear; a true move of God will not happen because of hype. Why do we think God will move if people are excited? If God moves people will be excited, He doesn’t need us to hype Him up. God is full of glory and wonder, and when humans are met by this beautiful God it is powerful! When we by way of the flesh, try to manifest that which is spiritual we are fake, disingenuous, and hypocritical.

In Amos 5:21 God proclaims, “I hate, I despise your religious festivals; your assemblies are a stench to me.” By our actions we say we can control and manipulate the Spirit of God; we can make Him appear and disappear at our whim. By our religious planning we set the rules for God. God is powerful. His Spirit comes and goes by His own will alone. We are fools to think that t-shirts, music, lights and A-list speakers have any influence on a true move of God.

And so we have short bursts of emotional response with no lasting change in the church. We stir our hearts until we cry and we sing until we elicit an emotion. After that we leave our “revival” unchanged. I have been to my fair share of revivals; but I’ve never been revived because of them.

True revival doesn’t come with eloquent speakers, but by a still small voice. True revival doesn’t come by way of rehearsed music, but it does create spontaneous song. True revival isn’t dressed in loud clamoring, it is accompanied by thick silence. True revival comes hand in hand with death. If you want to experience revival lock yourself in your closet, and keep doing it until God shows up; on His schedule not yours.

Where Are All The Men?

It is difficult for women today. It seems like there are a lot of 20 something women wondering where all the good men have gone. What is the culprit for this lack of men? Extended adolescence. It’s evidenced by the sheer amount of young men still living at home, without direction, playing video games, and working entry level jobs. When we talk about this, we must realize this extended adolescence is only a symptom and not the cause of the problem.  

What is causing young men to play games? Why are young men spending their money on silly hobbies, watching hours of Youtube and Netflix and avoiding real commitment and their call to adventure? Where are the men with chests? Young men, in their formation, are very much under attack on many levels. But one of the most devastating attacks is this: boys are no longer expected to be men.

In tribes and cultures around the world and throughout history, societies have emphasized a turning point for boys. At some point in a boy’s life, often towards the beginning of his teenage years, there would have been a ceremony transitioning him from being a boy to being a man. In warrior cultures he would have become a warrior. Some cultures he would have been old enough to start a trade. In the Jewish tradition he would’ve had a bar mitzvah. In our culture, we don’t have a clear transition. In our culture boys will be boys well into their adulthood.

I am calling for a change in the Church. We ought to be a voice for boys to transition into manhood. Maybe we need a ceremony. Maybe we need some sort of standard training. What ever it is, we need it NOW! We need them to realize their God given identity. They’re being told on all sides to never grow up. We need men to be men, we can’t afford a society without them.

If you have a good idea leave comment: or better yet start a move in your church!

A Modest Meal

I like the 1920’s and I often imagine what it would be like to live in such a classy era. The lights, the glam, the music, everything was so ostentatious. America has changed a good deal since the jazz age. One thing that remains is our love for extravagance, and no greater evidence can be given than our diets. We eat things that are beyond extravagant. Everything we eat is brightly colored, larger than life (almost a parody of itself), and seasoned, spiced and flavored artificially.

Grand feast days of the past are simply a Tuesday night for us. Is that wrong? Is it wrong to eat so much, consume so many delicious things? Yes, it certainly is. Now let’s not be people of the law and force ourselves into ascetism. But let us not justify our gluttony or try and excuse it away. Take a second to ponder: many of our foods are considered evil. We have deviled eggs, devil food cakes and cookies, “That cake was simply sinful”. The term decadent (which is often used to describe food) means immoral. But we speak in our tongue in cheek sort of way and excuse ourselves. I am not meaning to imply that food is good or evil, but I am making the claim that we know that our eating habits can be good or evil.

I suggest a change, let’s eat modestly. There is no need for us to spend our money on unnecessary food and extravagant fare. This raises the question; “what is a modest meal”. There’s no rule or regulation, there is only balance. Three things you must remember; occasion, measure, and integrity. In consideration for our food we must consider the occasion, or even the reason why we are eating. I found myself eating an ice cream sandwich in the middle of a workday. Its that sort of thing that we know is wrong because it isn’t the appropriate occasion. Is it wrong to eat birthday cake? Only, perhaps, if it is unknown who’s birthday it is. We ought not eat as if we’re celebrating when we are not.

If we are eating for the right reason and the occasion is correct for us to eat, then we should consider the measure of food we ought to eat. Again, there is an argument made for eating more on special occasions, but in the west, we are guilty of overeating. I could go to the trouble of looking up statistics but it’s not a hotly contested fact. We must consider how much is reasonable. And that brings up an important point. Eating must become less informed by our feelings and controlled by our reason. This is a difficult task, no doubt, but an imperative one.

Lastly, in order to eat modestly we should eat food that has the integrity of being real food. Things that are extracted and processed are almost never good for us. We must make a conscious decision to eat real food. Again, there’s no law to what real food is, but I believe in your intelligence; you know what food is real and what is not. Before you sit down at your next meal consider these three things: Why, How much, and What Kind? Be intentional, be modest.

Church Is In The House

Where is the church going?

Are churches moving from big congregations to “house” or “organic” churches? Not really in the west. House churches are biblical, historical, efficient and reproduce rapidly. In China and other countries, the Church functions almost entirely through small bodies in houses because of persecution. When churches are planted, they’re often planted in small house churches. Big Churches that function well in America almost all have small groups that meet like a house church, because it works.

Why are we fighting?

You must ask yourself, if we know that churches function so well in a house church model why is the western church fighting tooth and nail to keep the Big church model afloat? All statistics show that most traditional churches are growing at the same rate they have 70 years ago, but population growth has nearly doubled. There’s not much doubt the big church model is struggling. However, just because it’s struggling doesn’t mean it’s wrong. I’m not condemning the big church model.

If big churches are struggling in America, while house churches are thriving all over the world we have an obligation to seek God’s desire for the church. Does He desire that we continue to build churches the way the west has built them for the last 1,000 years (give or take), or does He want us to focus on house churches (2,000 years not including the synagogues of the old testament)? I will not make this a dogmatic statement, as there is still utility in the current model. The Church must actively pursue house churches.

What now?

This is not a reaction to culture. The move to house churches is and must be a response to the work of God. For the last few decades more and more churches are adopting house churches as a part of their ministry but tightly holding on to the western model. It is passed time that we let go of this model and embrace a new model. In many ways we are impeding the work of God by trying to preserve and revive a model. It is only a model, a tool for a time gone by. The church does not need buildings, or buses, it needs intimacy and care.

Big Church is over.

Children’s church is Canceled.

When I was a little kid, I used to look forward to Sunday school and children’s church. The most disappointing Sundays were the days that children’s church was canceled. That meant after Sunday school you had to go to big church. Big church was a fate worst than death. You had to listen to some old guy tell lame jokes and talk about stuff you didn’t understand. Then we’d all stand sing hymns (the words of which I didn’t understand). We’d pray for what seemed like a year. After all that big church was over and I had lost 2 hours of my life.

Church as Usual

As I look at the western church today, I see it get further and further away from the biblical identity it’s supposed to carry. It’s flashy, it’s exciting, its expensive and most of all it’s ineffective. Big church. Big stages with plenty of negative space. Trendy podiums for a pastor wearing shirts his wife purchased from the buckle. The congregation is full of people who may have had tears during the worship set but as soon as church is “over” they’re talking with all sorts of worldly dribble.

Is Church Canceled?

Is all lost? Is the church too far gone? The glorious bride of Jesus is not gone, she is still alive, and she is beautiful and holy. But the church no longer meets in the framework of large building with lights and cameras she quietly sits in homes. Rightly, the church was started with a few who met often and shared life. This is the true identity of the church. Small groups of people called out for the purpose of God. The time for change is now.

God’s direction for the Church

With the corona virus scare many churches decided their course of action should be to host online church. A distant, impersonal option. I am telling you right now; God allowed this virus to disrupt the big church in order that small churches would be in every part of the city! Big churches ought to have been training up pastors for such a time as this. It’s not too late, but the church must shift its focus right now! God is starting a new work for small churches, house churches, organic churches. These bodies are how He designed His church. Go to scripture, read its pages. The new testament church met in homes, they met in the street and they were able to turn the world upside down!

Train your people to be disciple makers and pastors. The Kingdom of God is moving do not be left holding on to your dogma and tradition.

I can’t feel God.

There is no greater thing in life than feeling God’s presence. There is no worse feeling than the absence of God’s presence. What should I do if I don’t feel God for days, months, or even years? It feels so incredibly hopeless. 

In our society we try to conjure up the presence of God through worship playlists, inspirational speeches and clever books. We churn the soil of our hearts with new songs and new words. We want new revelation and new experience. We till and till the soil of our heart hoping that God will appear because of our hard work. 

Instead of finding God our hearts become dry and brittle. You see just like earth that has been tilled too much or hearts dry up and blow away with the wind. Maybe you find that you’ve shown up sunday after sunday spent your energy in the worship time trying to get God to appear to no avail. 

What you need isn’t more work. What you need is to sit. Let the dry soil of your heart heal. God is not found in the loud orchestras or the bright lights. Go hide yourself. When Israel experienced a drought, both spiritually and physically; God told his prophet “go hide yourself.” 

Elijah went to the desert and God provided for him. For 3 years Elijah hid himself in the wilderness. At the end of these 3 years Elijah repaired the altar of God and God moved, the drought was ended and the land healed. 

If you cannot feel God don’t try and manifest Him through music and media. These things will only till the heart. You must, as Jesus instructed, go into your closet. Spend your time in listening prayer. Cover your heart with testimony of God’s goodness. Go hide yourself. 

When a christian sins

I have committed more sin as a christian than before I met Jesus. I think a great many christians in our generation identify with that statement. We could spend time detailing just how we’ve committed sin, we could list all sorts of evil things we’ve done. Honestly, it wouldn’t be worth the time. I will, however, tell you what happens when a follower of Jesus sins. 

When a christian sins it is not because God has made him sin. Your sin is always because your sinful nature. Often people will attempt to justify their sin because it is “natural”. It may in fact be natural but it is God’s desire nor is it good! Take for instance murder, rape, or stealing; these types of behavior are found in nature, but they are evil! Holiness is against our nature, because it is the product of the Holy Nature of God. Your sin is only a product of your sinful Nature. 

When a christian sins he does not merely brush off his actions. The christian, who has the Spirit of God within him, is broken over his sin. He does not justify, he does not hide his sin. He walks to Jesus and with a broken heart seeks mercy. The greatest thing a christian can do is to love mercy. If the church sought mercy with the same intensity that Jesus did the world would be transformed. If you love mercy, you love receiving it and giving it! 

When a christian sins he takes the broken pieces to Jesus. There is a pervasive lie in the world; “because my sin comes naturally, it must not be sin at all.” That leads many people into a lifestyle of destruction. The christian must walk differently. We must acknowledge the existence of our sin. We must also acknowledge the cost of our sin. It is our sin that has separated us from God. Our sin breaks up our relationships on earth. It is our nature that causes death. 

The world might be okay “redefining” their sin, but the christian accepts his sin and takes it to Jesus for removal. 

Right and Wrong?

One of the fundamental attributes of humanity is our ability to tell what is right, and what is wrong. If you look at animals there is no such understanding. Primates, like the chimpanzee, engage in some truly awful behavior by moral standards. Rape, murder, incest, pedophilia, revenge killings and stealing are just a day in the life for most of the natural world. 

We possess inside our souls an understanding of right and wrong. Now some of it may be shaped by the culture around us, but it is undeniable that there’s something deeper. That thing deep inside of us is the law of God. 

If you do not believe in God than all morality is based on your preference. For instance if we have evolved from ancient primates then incest, rape, murder and theft are all perfectly acceptable actions, because after all they are things you prefer. Also actions like sacrificing your life for someone else is not good, in fact it’s a bit foolish. 

This does not mean you can’t do good things unless you believe in God. It means that no action is good or bad at all. Unless God is the foundation of good or bad, right and wrong are an illusion. 

For instance; is there a difference between killing thousands of crickets and killing thousands of humans? If we are all animals, no more innately valuable than the other, there is no real difference. If humans are made in the image of God and are more valuable because of it, then there is a difference! 

The atheist has very little footing when it comes to morality, he must admit that without God there is no objective good or bad. What we are seeing today is an increase of this problem. Everything is right and everything is wrong in society and it really only depends on personal preference.

As our society in the west becomes more secular our laws will become more subjective and harder to enforce. Without a clear right or wrong our current chaos will only widen and deepen. We will trade the law of God for the law of the jungle.