Can Jesus Visit You In A Dream?

Can Jesus visit you in a dream? If Jesus is God and has all power, then of course Jesus can visit you in a dream. God is no stranger to using dreams to communicate to people in the Bible. Jesus has the capacity of visiting you in a dream.

I’ve heard of people being visited by Jesus in a dream. You hear stories of these dreams leading people of false religions to Jesus. There have been increasing reports of Jesus dreams in muslim communities.

I will not condemn these. If they truly bear good fruit then they must be from God. The disciples wanted to stop a certain man from preaching because they didn’t know who he was. Jesus told them “do not stop him from preaching, whoever is not against you is for you.” If these dreams are bringing people to a genuine faith and relationship with Jesus how could anyone condemn them?

However, and this is a big one, Jesus will only testify to the truth (John 18:37). If Jesus did come to you in a dream you would need to be able to verify His identity by comparing your dream to the truth of scripture.

Jesus would never tell you something contrary to what God has revealed in the Bible. If Jesus visited you in a dream and told you to kill anyone it would clearly be against the law of God. If dream Jesus gave you stock market advice or told you to sleep with someone outside of marriage, you can bet that’s not Jesus. Jesus won’t teach you to be selfish or sinful.

Yes, Jesus can visit you in a dream. However, if you’re a follower of Jesus you have His presence in the Bible and in the Spirit living within you. God has spoken in many ways throughout time. But the greatest revelation of God is the Gospel of Jesus found in the Bible. If you want to know Jesus, you don’t have to have a dream. You can know Him personally through prayer and fellowship in His word.

Can Jesus Fly?

This is a fun question, eh? I don’t know which of you are out there googling this, but I commend your curiosity! The simple answer is, yes. It appears that Jesus can.

After His crucifiction and ressurection Jesus appeared to a number of His followers. He gave them a commission to go out and make disciples. Then the Bible says that Jesus ascended to heaven. Which is quite an exit!

Acts 1:9-12

Porn Hurts Healthy Sex

Before I was married I was enslaved to pornography. I hated that I kept falling into the same habits. My behaviors related to pornography and masturbation absolutely crippled me psychologically. I had this secret life that seemed to creep into every part of who I was. I considered myself a follower of Jesus, but I couldn’t keep from watching porn.

What I didn’t know was how watching porn made sex with my wife so difficult. After Jesus had set me free from pornography I noticed something strange.

The conditioning from porn made sex with my wife harder to enjoy. I had gotten so used to watching porn and masturbating that pleasing my wife became difficult. You see something in my mind was used to the ease of access to porn and gratification.

Sex is much more about a mutual pursuit of pleasure for your spouse. But when you’re so used to just focusing on your own pleasure it makes having sex more challenging. You’re not used to seeking the pleasure of your wife.

God gave me grace to learn love in sex. To seek the good of my wife over my own gratification. That’s not to say I wasn’t satisfied, on the contrary, sex with my wife is one of the most wonderful things in marriage. But in the beginning I was so selfish.
Porn makes good men selfish. It makes sex one sided. God’s plan for sex is sacrificial and meaningful. Pornography makes sex one sided and neurotic. It’s easy to pursue your own gratification in porn. By contrast, the greatest good in sex is the pleasure you bring to your spouse.
God wants to heal you of your addiction to porn. Consider taking a step to meeting with a counselor or a pastor. The quality of sex in your marriage is dependent upon your freedom from selfishness.

Why Did Jesus Die On The Cross?

I have no hope at all to answer such a question in one chapter. It is something I could write about for the rest of my life, even for a thousand years, and barely scratch the surface of.

However, it is one of the fundamental questions of Christianity. I will give you an answer, but know that it is not the fullest answer to this question.

Jesus died on the cross in order that anyone who believes on Him would be reconciled to God, and begin to know God and enjoy Him forever.

We are both victims and perpetrators of broken law. We are enslaved by evil and malevalence. But, we are also guilty of being evil. Because of these two realities we cannot know God.
This evil keeps us from knowing and being with God. What’s more, it makes us hurt everyone, and everything around us. There is no part of God’s Earth that has not experienced pain and corruption because of men. Mankind is sick. If God had wiped the earth clean of mankind it would only cleanse the Earth of our sickness.

But God had compassion on us. He sent Jesus to take the evil of mankind in His own body (even though He had no sin). When Jesus was on the cross God destroyed all evil. Then Jesus by the power of God, was made alive again.

Jesus now gives anyone, who is fully persuaded by His death and ressurection, the ability to be free from evil. By trusting that Jesus’ death was enough to destroy our sin we can be free from sin. Being persuaded that Jesus came back to life, we are given new life in relationship with God.

Jesus didn’t just die to make you good. Jesus died so that you would be given new life! Life so that you may know and enjoy God forever.

You Don’t Need Another Sermon On Porn

James 1:22 “Be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.”

I spent years addicted to porn. I would watch videos on how to get free. I read every man’s battle. I heard a million sermons. Most of them were 45 minutes of “why porn is wrong”.

I’m not going to tell you why its wrong. You know why its wrong. What you need isn’t more information on the damaging effects of porn. You don’t need another sermon. You need obedience.

I spent years looking for the secret trick or the new revelation. I was looking for a moment that my chains would be broken and I would really be free. All I ever got were sermons on “why porn is bad”.

Freedom from porn doesn’t come through a program it comes through a person. How did I experience freedom from this addiction?

I adopted a lifestyle of humility. Self consciousness kept me from ever knowing freedom. I realized I would rather lose my reputation than continue to be enslaved. I sought help from my pastoral team and had sought help from other professions. Your greatest enemies are pride and fear. Humble yourself.

I had to find out why I was turning to porn. I had been medicating myself with pleasure. Escapism and pleasure gave me relief from how hard life is. Most addictions begin as a medication of sorts.

Most of all I had to give up my rights. I gave up my rights to my body. Your body is not your own. You have no rights to abuse the goodness God has given you. I began submitting my mind and body to God, because they are His.

Maybe you’re struggling with this addiction. If you are, take steps. Turn off the sermons and the books and follow God in obedience. Seek help and wisdom from wise counsel.

Can Jesus Be Tempted?

Could Jesus sin? If Jesus was really God could He be tempted to do something evil? Did Jesus have this human experience of temptation?

This is a good question, but it is an easy one to answer! Hebrews 4:15 “ we have a High Priest who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.” Could Jesus be tempted? Not only could he have been tempted, He was tempted! Here’s the kicker, he experienced all temptation and never sinned!

Have you ever been tempted with something you hate? Maybe you’re in a committed relationship and you’re tempted to cheat on your spouse. Maybe you are tempted to cheat at work to get ahead? Lying to get yourself out of trouble, stealing pens or paper from work. Maybe you’ve been tempted to take your own life to escape pain.

Jesus felt all of these temptations. It is comforting to me that Jesus was tempted. He has sympathy for me. He has sympathy for you. Jesus cares for you. You have a high priest who understands your temptation and has overcome them all!

In Hebrews it says Jesus now stands before God defending us, because he knows how hard it is. God has mercy for those who repent of their sin and follow Him.

48 Minutes That Will Change Your Life

I was thinking about tithes. Tithing pre-dates the nation of Israel, Abraham gave a Tithe to Melchezidek (Genesis 14:18-24). It was practiced before the law of Moses and it has been practiced after Jesus fulfilled the law. Tithing serves two purposes; firstly it allows God’s people to be a part of God’s work. Secondly it teaches the heart total submission to God.

But God wants more than just your money He wants your life!

This brings me to the 48 minutes that will change your life. Start with this question: “What if I gave a tithe of my time?” One tenth of your time to God.

This got me thinking. There are 24 hours in a day that’s 2 hours and 24 minutes. Even for the super spiritual 2 and a half hours is a daunting amount of time. Like Daniel you could split this up to three times a day, Morning, Noon and Night. We could divide it into three 48 minute times of devotion.

Still, that may seem unachievable to most of us. What if we only tithed the hours we’re awak? Let’s say that’s sixteen hours, that gives us 96 minutes. Or two 48 minute quite times morning and evening (like the psalmnist and Isaiah).

If that’s still too much for you to undertake right away, why don’t you tithe on your time outside of work. If you have 8 hours outside of work your tithe would be 48 minutes.

Do you want to revolutionize your prayer life? Set apart 48 minutes of your day as a tithe to God. 48 minutes of meditation, thanksgiving and prayer. That’s 16 minutes morning, noon and night, or 24 minutes morning and evening.

Every Christian ought to strive to spend more time with God. I think there is power in 48 minutes. What do you think?

Masculinity Is Maturity

Masculinity is currently imploding. Every time we turn on the T.V. or pop over to yahoo news there’s a new story about a selfish man doing selfish things. Evil and wicked men are a dime a dozen. It’s a P.R. nightmare for men. It is also so hard to see any good example of masculinity for boys. This is not a new development. For ages and ages heroes are very flawed men.

Part of the problem is how we define masculinity as a culture. As I see it there are two ways to view masculinity. It is a set of traits that are violent, strong and abrasive a barbarian and brute. Or it is nothing at all and just a construct of society. Neither of these are entirely true. Yes, men tend to be more violent and abrasive than women. Yes, society has a say in how men are perceived and even act. However, not all men are Conan the Barbarian and some men have an identity apart from how culture defines them.

Our culture defines masculinity as an opposition or difference from femininity. Women are more alike than they are different. What defines masculinity is not how men differ from women, rather, it is by how they differ from boy. The Bible distinguishes men from boys. “When I was a child I spoke as a Child, now I am a man and have put away childish things” 1 Corinthians 13:11. What our culture is in desperate need of is an expectation for men to grow up. Most great sin is born out of immaturity and selfishness.

Our culture expects men to act childish. It is a defining feature in entertainment and advertising. The dad goofs off while mom does the work. Young men staying at home with their parents playing videogames or basketball. It may seem like a stretch to equate immaturity with the terrible sins of our society. Let me be very clear; boys who never mature are selfish, lazy, and gluttonous. For too long, proponents of Biblical masculinity, have squared up men verses women; masculinity is a maturity issue. Men must wage war on their own immaturity in order to walk in a unique expression of masculinity

Who Did Jesus Hang Out With?

“If you put a bad apple in a barrel of good apples the rest will soon rot.” I remember reading this when I was a teenager. It was some literature talking about peer pressure or something akin to that. It makes sense I suppose, keep your bad things away from your good things. Keep your dead things away from things that are alive. This was the parenting standard for most of the 90’s and for much of the early 2000’s. Bad kids corrupt good kids. In some way it created an unhealthy protection. Like too much hand sanitizer, kills all the germs and your immune system suffers because it doesn’t develope resistance.
It’s a good thing that Jesus didn’t share this sentiment. He was a good apple in a barrel full of rotten apples. He was something very alive in a dead world. When Jesus arrived on earth it became impossible for Him to avoid relationship with flawed humanity. However, I think this question of ‘who did Jesus hang out with?’ is one of those questions that people use to justify their behaviors. Like a teenager hanging out with a rough crowd in school tells his mom “Jesus was a friend of sinners, so am I.” Or like the progressive Christian 20 something “Jesus was sitting with sinners drinking wine and having a good time.”
There are two stark differences between Jesus sitting with sinners and publicans; and a college student going to a kegger. The difference is the leadership of the Spirit and presence of righteousness. Jesus went to these places because He was led by the Spirit. There was an intentionality to Jesus going to these parties the publicans threw. He didn’t go to “have a good time.” He went to change their lives. He didn’t go to dance, get drunk and play games. He went to heal the sick. He saw the people partying as sick people in need of a healer. If you are making the argument that Jesus was there to have a good time you’ll be hard pressed to find scripture proving that. What you will find in scripture is Jesus teaching and changing lives around Him.
Jesus did hang out with sinners, so that they might experience freedom from sin. Jesus did hang out with those who were dead inside in order to give them life.

Humble Christian

The most pervasive and sinful thought in the western church is; ‘God’s glory is attached to my individual well being’. That is to say; God get’s more glory if I am doing well. The more power and authority I have, the greater God’s glory. The more stuff I own, the bigger His kingdom. Our attitude towards the world, in this present age, is ‘I need to have all the trappings and subtance of the world in order for God to get glory from my life’.

The greatest contribution you can make in this life is to declare war on whatever feeds your ego. Let me be clear; the stuff of earth is not evil. God could bless you with all the wealth of the world and you could know Him as your dearest friend. However, the thought “if I have this desire it was given to me by God.” This is a weedy thought that can trap and enslave you.

God cares very much for you, and He does want to give you good things. However, If you find yourself pursuing good things verses pursuing our good God you will find destruction. Set your eyes and your affections on the Kingdom of God.

Humility was a reality in Jesus’ life. Jesus was not pre-occupied by Himself. What does that mean? He sought to obey God over His own flesh. The Bible says Jesus was tempted in the wilderness, yet He had His affections set on the will of God. Satan offered Him authority and Jesus embraced rejection. Satan offered Him Kingdoms but Jesus chose homelessness. Satan offered Jesus life, but Jesus chose to be obedient to God even to His death on the cross.

What am I saying? Reject the hustle. Reject self empowerment. Lay and axe to the root of any love that robs you of God given destiny. Materialism and Hedonism are tearing apart the western church. Be brave enough to live in humility. Do things because God has called you to them not because they are fiscally lucrative. Sacrifice yourself. Give up prestige and power. Be obedient to God.

Walk humbly.